Why is comparison so damaging to progress?

Comparison is a silent killer of dreams. It creeps in when we least expect it—scrolling through social media, looking at others’ achievements—and it robs us of joy. But more than that, it stops us in our tracks. When you start comparing your journey to someone else’s, you immediately slow down. Why? Because you’re no longer focused on your growth; you’re fixated on someone else’s.

Here’s why this matters:

1. Comparison breeds discontent: The moment you compare yourself to someone else, you’re telling yourself that what you have isn’t enough. You discount all your hard work and progress, and instead, you feel inadequate.
2. It stunts your progress: When you’re focused on someone else’s lane, you’re not putting energy into your own growth. It’s like trying to run a race while looking sideways—you’re bound to trip and fall.
3. Success is unique to YOU: No two success journeys look the same. Just like fingerprints, your journey is entirely your own. When you stop comparing, you’ll find peace in celebrating your own wins.

Here’s what to do instead:

1. Celebrate others without comparison: It’s okay to acknowledge others’ success. In fact, celebrate it! But never compare it to your own. Everyone is running their own race.
2. Focus on your lane: Your goals, your timeline, and your journey are unique. Stay focused on what you’re building. No one else has the same gifts, challenges, or purpose that you do.

Today, commit to staying in your lane. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and resist the urge to compare. You’re exactly where you need to be.

All the Best,
AG